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Career Woman

Hello Love Guru,

My case is different and i need to hear from you about it.

I am 42yrs of age, a female manager at a bank in Lagos. I currently have two houses, 3 expensive cars and a profitable side business. Problem is that i am single and the more success i have it’s very difficult to have a relationship.

Don’t get me wrong, i can have multiple men to fill my bed, there are hundreds of sugarboys trying their best to catch me, even Alhajis and older wealthy men are all interested in getting me.

I am surrounded by all these men but none of them is right for me or good for me and none of them want what i want or can give me what i need. They are either married, broke, a male gigolo, too young, too old, too ritualistic, too dumb, no ambition, an opportunist or a gold digger. With my age and status, lack of a proper social life and workaholism, how can i meet a reasonable, a good and relationship worthy man?

I really need this help and please don’t tell me to go and find a man in church.

Thank you


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Are men truly monogamous?

In response to the other post, i just want to ask a question:

Are men truly monogamous?

Lets be honest, even if a man loves his wife or girlfriend, there is still a very high tendency to desire another woman.

As for me, i take care of my wife, buy her whatever she needs and want (as long as i can afford it), take care of our kids, ensure everyone is comfortable and happy. From time to time i sleep with other women and i don’t feel guilty about it. I hide it from my wife out of respect and if she finds out i won’t deny it.

So guru, does that make me a bad person? Or i’m just a man, doing what i’m designed to do?


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Can a man love more than one woman at a time?

They say love guru abi? Ok.

I met this guy 2 years ago and we had a mad connection, not too long things got physical. We were happy but after a short time, he says he has a girl friend. My mind is he is mad and i told him to break up with her. Instead he invited me to his place one day and she was there, he introduced me to her and told her that he’s been sleeping with me. I expected her to be angry but she just gave me a bad look and walked away, back to the parlor, watching TV.

Long story short, this dude claims to be a polyamorist, a man who have several love relationships at the same time. Right now i can’t break up with him because he is like my perfect man and he is very caring, generous and knows how to work it down there. Right now he has introduced me to 3 other women as his girlfriend and i am tired.

Please love guru, what should i do? Talk some sense into my head abegbecause me i want to get married oo.