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Are men truly monogamous?

In response to the other post, i just want to ask a question:

Are men truly monogamous?

Lets be honest, even if a man loves his wife or girlfriend, there is still a very high tendency to desire another woman.

As for me, i take care of my wife, buy her whatever she needs and want (as long as i can afford it), take care of our kids, ensure everyone is comfortable and happy. From time to time i sleep with other women and i don’t feel guilty about it. I hide it from my wife out of respect and if she finds out i won’t deny it.

So guru, does that make me a bad person? Or i’m just a man, doing what i’m designed to do?


1 thought on “Are men truly monogamous?

  1. I don’t Think that you are a bad person. Men have a primitive instinct to spread their seed, that’s why it is easy for them to engage with other women. A man makes a choice to stay with only one woman and that is usually a very conscious choice that he needs to remind himself of.
    The problem with your case is the deceit that lies with your actions in relations to your wife. If you intend to continue with your trend, at least find out what her take is on polygamy and let her understand yours.
    Hope this helps.

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